An app that supports first-time expecting couples to have a smoother transition into parenthood, together.

Using activities and conversation prompts recommended by experts, Just Us helps couples strengthen their relationship and align on their shared approach to the first three months after the baby is born.

Project Overview
This is my capstone project from the University of Washington’s MHCI+D program. Over the course of 6 months, March '22 - August '22, we conducted research to understand the gap in supporting mothers & birthing people in the first 3 months after childbirth and designed an app to help first-time expecting couples prepare for this challenging period of time.
Responsibilities
User Research
Research Synthesis
Sketching and Ideation
Concept Testing
Storyboarding
Wireframing
UI Design
Prototyping
Video Directing
My Team
Advised by 98point6
Cynthia Lao
Janise Chan
Lakshmanan Palani

Design Challenge

The fourth trimester, also known as the first 3 months after the baby is born, is stressful for first-time parents; they experience heightened relationship conflict and are at risk of postpartum depression and anxiety.
We found that during pregnancy, first-time parents tend to focus on babycare tactics.
But without sharing their wants, fears, and expectations for their new parenting roles, they struggle to work together as a team when the baby comes.

The Solution

a mobile application that supports first-time expectant couples to have a smoother transition into parenthood, together.

4 main features of our app help to accomplish this:

Our concept video shows Just Us in use:

how did we get here?

Our process follows a standard design roadmap at its heart,
Modified double diamond of our Just Us design process
but what makes this project particularly interesting is how a willingness to pivot our design direction while guided by our key values improved our final product. As such, my focus here is especially on those pivot moments and how they affected our work.

Initial problem space

Our project took several turns to arrive at Just Us - it originated from an adjacent problem space through secondary research.

What we learned about the fourth trimester

The fourth trimester is an intensive transitional period for new parents.
Research shows that partner’s support during this time can improve the well-being of mothers and birthing people.
First-time fathers and partners feel a lack of preparation for this period of time.

more from secondary research

The fourth trimester (defined as the first three months after the baby’s birth) is an intensive transitional period for new parents, but especially for mothers and birthing people. They are providing intensive care for their newborn, while recovering from the physical and emotional challenges of delivery, subject to parenting stress, and at risk of postpartum depression (PDD), which negatively impacts their health and the development of their baby. In addition, once the baby is born, the focus is shifted to the baby, which detracts from mothers and birthing people getting sufficient support.
Research shows that partner’s support and involvement during this time can improve the well-being of mothers and birthing people.

Greater emotional support by partners can lead to:

  • less parental stress by birthing people
  • greater social support
  • feeling closer to their partner
Greater involvement of partner in infant care and household is associated with a greater subjective well-being of the mother

all of which protect mothers and birthing people from postpartum depression symptoms.

Yet emerging research on first-time fathers’ and partners’ experiences reveal that they feel a lack of preparation for this period of time. Society’s increase in expectations for fathers and partners and a lack of father/partner-specific models make it more challenging to adjust to their new role after childbirth and live up to these new demands. Even when they go to formal support programs or attend healthcare visits, they feel that the resources and information offered don’t speak to their specific challenges as fathers and partners.

Problem Space

Understand how to equip first-time fathers & partners to provide appropriate support to mothers & birthing partners during the fourth trimester.

Research

Over the next 3 months we conducted user interviews to understand:

  • couples’ experience and challenges of the fourth trimester
  • what supports do birthing people want and need
  • how first-time fathers & partners currently support mothers & birthing people

Interview with 15 Participants

Purpose of User Interviews

From birthing people: to learn about the types of support that they needed from their partner and ways they communicated these needs.

From partners: to learn about ways they understood and supported their partner, challenges they faced in doing so, and resources that they looked for during this time.

Profiles of Participants

7 birthing people and 8 partners; birthing people were recruited through their partners. Participants were all first-time parents with a baby that was less than 12 months old.

Methodology

We conducted 15 1-hour remote semi-structured interviews in 1.5 weeks. Interviews with the birthing person and their partner were conducted separately in order to hear each individual’s experience of the fourth trimester, and their responses were analyzed together.
Interviewing a participant separately from her partner, with my teammate Lakshmanan
Participants did a visual mapping exercise in the beginning of the interview, to help recall their fourth trimester experience. They were asked to map both their positive and the negative experiences.
Completed visual mapping exercises of our participants using FigJam

What I Did

I wrote the research session guide for partners,  recruited all 15 participants and was the only point-of-contact with participants to set up interviews. I delegated team members to facilitate interviews, and out of the 15 interviews, I moderated 5 of them and note took for 6 of them.

Interview with 6 Subject Matter Experts (SMEs)

Purpose of SME Interviews

To understand:

  • types of support offered for partners
  • the challenges they see couples go through
  • how experts work with couples through the fourth trimester

In talking to experts, we learned about the existing supports for birthing people and partners, which helped uncover gaps and highlighted opportunities to amplify what is working.

Profiles of SMEs

The SME’s we interviewed ranged from doulas to marriage and family therapists, to parent support coordinators. They all have knowledge in the post-birth period, or work with couples to provide them with support in the fourth trimester.

Methodology

We conducted 30-minute remote semi-structured interviews and attended the Conscious Fathering course to get a firsthand experience of what fathers and partners learn.

Sensemaking

We coded 13 participant interviews*, affinitized and analyzed them on a FigJam board, and arrived at 6 major insights in 2.5 weeks.
*One of the couples we interviewed told us a different gender of their baby and a different baby name than what the other had said, so we decided to exclude both of their interviews from our data.
Interview analysis board in FigJam

Pivot #1

Shifting our perspective that partners aren’t just supporters, they are active co-parents

During the interviews, we were asking how and what the partner did to support the birthing person, but in response what people were sharing with us were how they were working together as a team and what was challenging about working as a team during this time.

Our original problem space framing didn’t capture the way participants saw this period of time. The traditional mother-father roles are not a given anymore; not all couples saw the birthing people as the primary caregiver of the baby and partners as the supporters. In fact, a couple felt very strongly that partners aren’t just supporters but they are active co-parents, too.

This new perspective shaped all our subsequent insights.

Key Insights

01

Before birth, most couples talk baby care tactics, not team strategy. Without alignment on their team approach, they struggle to work together when the baby comes.

02

Couples hold their pre-birth wants and expectations sacred. They fail to let go and re-evaluate them during the challenging post-birth period.

03

Couples are overwhelmed by generic yet conflicting advice. They want to hear stories from parents they know to inform their own choices.

04

Partners put on a strong front for birthing people. Sharing their struggles feels counterproductive, but it can help the couple feel closer.

05

Friends & family fade out after initial baby days assuming everything is fine. Couples are still struggling and want them to offer support for sustained period.

06

Extra pair of hands are not always helpful. Couples need to set clear boundaries and give specific instructions to friends & family else the helpers end up being a burden.

3 Design Opportunities from Insights

From our 6 insights, we discovered 5 HMWs to design for that can be grouped into 3 Design Opportunities. Graphing the design opportunities on a timeline helped us visualize the time period our potential solutions fall under, which helped inform our design direction.

Orange – Support parents as a team
Yellow – Connect couples with other parents they know
Purple – Friends and family for support
Design opportunities

ideation

60 Ideas

We each came up with 20 ideas that spanned our 3 design opportunities for a total of 60 ideas.

We grouped our ideas into sub-categories to help us visualize areas of focus. Clusters of ideas that had potential to be incorporated in a concept together are depicted in green outlines.
60 ideas grouped into categories and related ideas are grouped together. Click to view full board.

3 Design Principles

We came up with 3 design principles distilled from our research, insights, and team interest, to guide us in ideating more concepts from each cluster of ideas and downselecting them.

Downselection

Upon the very first look at our ideation board, my team was interested in designing around the “physical mediums to prompt” post-it cluster. But we wanted to keep our options open and bring more fleshed out ideas to the table before we narrowed down to a final concept.

4 Concepts from Ideation Board

Using a combination of clustered sticky notes from our ideation board, we each came up with an idea to form a total of 4 concepts.

What I Did

I proposed the “Diary Reflection” concept, which is:

  • a platform where couples can record their baby’s progress in video snippet or short sentences and record what they want to talk about with their partner at a later time.

by using this main cluster of sticky notes along with other ideas from the ideation board:

A brief rundown of the other 3 concepts:

  • Build-a-team kit - a physical-digital toolkit that guides couples to talk about what’s important over 60 days and align as a parenting team before the baby comes.
  • Degrees of connection - a platform where expecting parents can crowdsource from their network of friends, and friends of friends for their baby stories and fails.
  • Coordinated help train - a platform couples can use to request help from their friends & family and friends & family can use to offer help.

View our 4 concepts in detail here.

We used an Impact to Effort graph to help downselect

We wanted a solution that was impactful: How helpful is our concept to couples?

And for us to be mindful of the effort it takes to build up a product: What is the easiest to build to see results considering research, design, and engineering efforts?

Impact to Effort graph for our 4 concepts

Result: Build-a-team was the best concept to pursue

  • Build-a-team kit promotes conversations among parents to align as a parenting team which we thought is valuable based on our insights, have a high impact, and be feasible to build out.
  • Coordinated help train and Degrees of connection had too many moving pieces (ex: users requesting 3rd party help) and logistics for our solution to be successful with our resources.
  • Diary Reflection would have a lower impact than what we wanted.

Inclination to design for ‘Before Birth’ time period

While narrowing down on a concept, my team came to an agreement that we were more inclined to design for the Before Birth (BB) time period. We recognize that the 4th trimester is a labor intensive and tense period, and didn’t want to add more stress to this time period. We believe that designing for BB can help to mitigate problems that can arise in the 4th trimester.

reframing the problem space

There was a clearer direction of the problem space our team wanted to focus on after 1.5 weeks of ideating, diving deeper into potential concepts, and team discussions, guided by our insights, research, feedback and interests.

Redefined Problem Space:

Before birth, first-time expectant parents tend to focus on babycare tactics. But without sharing their own wants, fears, and expectations for their parenting roles, they struggle to work as a team after the baby is born.

storyboarding

With our redefined problem space in place and a team decision to build out “Build-a-team-kit” as our product, we each created 2 different storyboards of how we envisioned the product and most importantly, sticking with the high-level concept of how couples would use it to promote conversations to align as a parenting team.

What I Did

The 2 storyboards I created revolved around using artifacts like building blocks or paper models to support couples to have hard conversations.

Aligning as a team and discussing storyboard ideas

Our team came together with a total of 6 different storyboards to have an alignment discussion about what we liked and disliked from each storyboard and raised concerns and asked questions to hear the rationale of each other’s ideas, to design our final initial concept.

concept 01

Build-A-Team-Kit

Concept

A physical-digital toolkit that guides couples to talk about what’s important over 60 days and align as a parenting team before the baby comes.

How It Works

  • couples read and talk about daily prompts, printed on pieces of a paper model or on cards
  • as they answer prompts, they build a paper model together over time
  • at the end, they can record baby vows or messages of affirmation for future selves and partner and tag it to the model
  • the paper model will display these messages through their phone via AR projection over time

Rationale

Use tactile physical elements to move away from digital interactions and increase engagement with one another on serious topics in a more fun and light-hearted manner.
To make use of couple’s space at home and provide them with a way to record messages in a static space to revisit in the future as a reminder of their journey.

Why we chose not to pursue it further

Making paper models can be an intense & time consuming task. It would divide the couples attention from having hard alignment conversations.
Building paper models can get repetitive, and tedious. Couples might opt out of making the model which would eliminate the purpose of recording messages for each other.
Scanning the paper models to access the AR projection on the phone in the fourth trimester is a high friction action for users.
My team and I mapping out how users would tag AR messages in their space. Would they use a “throw mechanism”? How do we obtain a precise geolocation of the message and deliver it back to the couple when they walk to the tagged location in the future?
As a team, we talked through every possible idea to further flesh out our concept, from hashing out how the mechanism to tag AR messages in space would work with current technology, to role playing our concept and finding different physical mediums to support talking through the prompts. Though we were ideating on top of our initial concept, we were not satisfied with our design as what we designed clashed with our design principles.

So we decided to take a step back and make the solution more easily consumable.

Main Themes to Carryover

01
Supporting couples in having hard conversations before the baby comes to help them align as a team
02
A way to record messages for their future selves to look back on as a reminder of their journey.

pivot #2

Using what we learned from our initial concept, we decided to focus on what our users really wanted, which was to have prompted conversations that will allow them to talk about their emotions, values, wants, and fears, for after the baby is born.

Thus we created Concept 02 + 03 and storyboarded them to convey how users would experience our product.

Concept 02: This is Us

A research-backed app that helps expecting parents work together as a team. The app prompts couples to individually reflect on their values, aspirations, and fears around the fourth trimester, before they come together to share their answers and develop a shared strategy.

Concept 03: Big Little Things

An app-based program that suggests activities and prompts for expecting parents. Couples can discuss their values, aspirations, and fears around the fourth trimester before the baby comes and record messages of reflection for their future-selves.

Concept Testing

We presented both storyboard concepts to 2 pairs of couples; one couple just had a baby and the other were soon-to-be first time parents.

Purpose

To understand:

  • What features of the concepts are important for couples to have
  • What would/wouldn’t work for them
  • Do our concepts align with user’s interests
Concept testing with a couple, with my teammate Janise

What we Learned

01
Having prompts to initiate conversations were really valuable to our participants.
Participants said that sometimes, they wouldn’t have thought to talk about certain topics because “you don’t know what you don’t know”.
02
Most of our participants found value in being reminded of their values and intentions during a really difficult time such as the 4th trimester. It reminds themselves that they are there for each other when both of them are tired, sleep deprived and not in the same emotional state as earlier.
03
Most people found the idea of collecting real world items and tagging them with virtual messages too tacky. This concept was also high friction as it requires the couple to pull out their phone to open up the AR application via a notification, and search for the AR message in space.
04
Most participants felt that reading other parents responses helped them prepare for the unknown and get them mentally prepared for anything that might come.

final Concept

Using what we learned through research, iterations, and feedback from interviewees, we decided to focus our time and effort to build Just Us - an app that supports first-time expecting couples to have a smoother transition into parenthood, together.

Wireframing

Each of us brought ideas to the table, from wireframes to brand color to the look and feel of our product, and we made all decisions as a team through discussions, raising questions about each design decision, and ranking designs.

What I Did

I drew up wireframes for what the prompts, text input for each prompt, profile page, and other parent’s answers would look like. I also prototyped swipe and tap interactions for how users would interact with the prompts, and how they would input text for each prompt.

Below shows my preliminary wireframes which were iterated on over 2.5 weeks of designing and building Just Us.

Just Us final design

01
Curated Conversation Prompts
The core of our product is to have a variety of conversation prompts, recommended by experts, to strengthen first-time expectant couples’ relationship and align on their shared approach to the fourth trimester.

I designed the card deck look and feel

I proposed using a card deck to display conversation prompts because it felt light-hearted and fun to use, almost mimicking a physical deck of cards. I added the swipe motion to aid in the realistic feeling of a shuffling through flashcards.

I started conversations with a simple and engaging activity

In our previous concepts, we paired conversations with making paper models or an activity, like taking a walk, to achieve a more light-hearted atmosphere for serious conversations.

In Just Us, I suggested to start each conversation starts off with a suggested activity that is proven to bring couples closer together and build intimacy, such as, look into each other’s eyes for 1 minute or breathe together while touching your foreheads together, before they talk through a sequence of curated conversation prompts.

I provided clear navigation of topics, conversation, and prompts

To make it easier for users to choose what prompts to talk through, I created a hierarchy for how to organize the prompts. I discovered that several prompts can be grouped together for users to discuss in one conversation, and each conversation fall under a topic.

User flow: couples choose a topic of interest, then a conversation within that topic, which brings them to the deck of prompts to start their conversation.

Homepage

To help users access a variety of topics in an organized and quick manner, I designed the homepage to include:

  • Personalized landing page
  • Quick access to in-progress conversation topics
  • Curated program of conversation topics based on interest

Explore Page

Explore allows users to browse through all topics including those not recommended in their program.

  • Each topic has a blurb to inform users what this topic will cover
  • The featured conversation of the topic is one that is most important to talk about.

Conversation Page

Once the couple chooses a Conversation, I provided an addition blurb that details what the conversation is about to help them decide if this is something they want to discuss.

Articles written by Experts

I included articles written by experts as an option for couples who want more information about the topic.

02
Read Other Parents’ Experiences
Under each prompt, couples can read other parents’ responses to get a direction for their own conversations. They can use this information to craft their own answer, agree or disagree with what they’ve read, or be inspired by the answers and think about what they want for themselves.

I ensured user needs were met by implementing their feedback

Insights from both our user interviews and concept testing show that couples want to read stories from other parents to inform their own choices and prepare for the unknown by learning about other’s experiences.

I suggested putting this feature for each prompt instead of one level up on the Conversation page so that users can read shorter, streamlined, responses for a specific concern rather than a longer response addressing the conversation. The shorter responses allow users to obtain information in a short amount of time to help kickstart their own response the prompt.
03
Journey is a way for couples to look back at the conversations they’ve talked about and the memories they’ve made on their journey to strengthen their bond before their baby arrives. Couples record text, audio, and photos that is logged to their Journey that encompasses the last times it’ll be just the two of them.
Record couple’s pre-birth Journey

I provided different ways for couples to log their responses

Input by text or audio

  • I designed the prompt cards such that couples can choose to jot down notes from their conversation on the flipside of the cards.
  • To combat this high friction feature, I provided a starter phrase and a choice of text or voice entry to record notes.

Snapping a Photo

At the end of each conversation, couples are prompted to snap a photo that is logged into their Journey.

Memories are a way for couples to look back on the time and effort they’ve spent to become a stronger team for each other and their baby and a way for them to remember what really matters and what they’re working towards during the really hard times in the 4th trimester.
04
Playback Memories
After the couple’s baby is born, the app intermittently delivers a notification to their phone during the 4th trimester, which brings them to a video montage when they tap the notification.
These delivered Memories are also logged into the Journey for them to revisit if they desire.
Having a stronger bond and aligning on their approach to the 4th trimester before the baby comes, helps couples have an easier time transitioning into this new stage of life called parenthood.

Personal Growth

Divergent thinking

This project challenged me to keep my range of ideas broad before narrowing down, and not being afraid to repeat this process multiple times and pivot directions. There were several concepts that my teammates and I talked-to-death about and built out but ultimately decided to drop because we were not satisfied with the solution. One thing that was crucial to our team in making decisions was our unified goal of keeping our user’s needs at the forefront of every design decision. Defending or letting go of our design decisions to build in our app was an easier process when we had the same goal in mind.

Thank you to my teammates Lakshmanan and Janise, it was a pleasure working with you all.